Missing Autistic Child's Remains Found in New York
Avonte Oquendo, the 14 year old with autism was declared missing on Oct. 14 2013 from his school in New York. A school video camera captured him walking out of the school in Long Island City, NY last fall. That was the last evidence of him seen alive. Our hope that he could be found alive Search and Rescue Team ended last week when the DNA of remains found on the shores of a river in Queens confirmed all of our worst fears. Our hopes for the best became our worst nightmare. Avonte would not be coming home . In the midst of this tragedy, what is/are our take home lesson(s). We are all downcast by this tragedy and overwhelmed by a sense of failure. This is the appropriate time to take a critical look at what could be down differently to stave this type of preventable tragedy. It is also the wrong time to blame each other for what we did wrong. That is for later. We must own up to our mistakes and take responsiblity for what went wrong. A review of the incident report from